I know a doctor who has been in clinical practice for the rest of his life and has just retired.He is kind and good at interacting with others. He has contacted many people in the hospital and can chat with others. He knows a lot about his birth, old age, sickness and death, family affairs and fate.That night she sighed that she read countless people in the hospital and found that those who are filial to their parents have good conditions and have a good career. On the contrary, those who are poor in their lives are unfilial to their parents.She saw it clearly in this special place in the hospital.She gave me some examples and first said from her own relatives:
My nephew is a filial man. He always says that his parents' grace should be repaid with a spring of water.He did show it in action, too.He received good rewards. He, a commoner, went to Canada to study, first in a small city, and then was admitted to the University of Toronto (ranked 16th in the world, more than 100 places above Peking University).
My nephew heard that her grandmother was in poor health in Canada. He knew that his mother and mother-in-law (i.e., his grandmother) had a bad relationship, so he called me and asked me to take care of her grandmother.My home is in Beijing, but I feel that my nephew is filial, so I rushed to Zhengzhou to take care of his grandmother.He also called his mother and said that he must not be bad for grandma.For the sake of his son, his mother also took on the task of taking care of her mother-in-law.This nephew is very developed in his career now.
There is a worker's child in our hospital. He didn't know whether he had graduated from high school or not. He usually fights and swears, and he is a slut.But it's just good to grandparents.We all know that his mother is not good to her mother-in-law, but this grandson is good to these two old people and wants to repay her kindness, because it was her grandparents who brought him up since childhood.Under his guidance, his wife was also very nice to the old man.The couple is filial to each other. Although his mother is unfilial to her grandmother, he is also filial to her mother. Every time he visits her mother, he pays a lot of money and throws it there without any counting.Anyway, this person is very honest.Just this person who has no diploma is now buying a five-star hotel in Beijing. It is extremely fat and there are always people who invite you, and even invite you to Australia to play.Now I bought all the car houses.
I met an old woman when I was treated. The family lived in a large courtyard house. You know, in Beijing, it would be so expensive to have a courtyard house in my own home!When chatting with her, she sighed that she was so poor in the past!A young man is a widow, with three children, and he also needs to support his mother. When the child is very young, he has to work with her, such as wrapping threads and peeling mica, and the lifestyle of urban poor people to make a living.Even though she was so poor, she would not leave her mother (probably she still had brothers and sisters, and she wanted to support her mother as a filial piety). The child learned from her since she was a child that she wanted to support the elderly. Later, her second daughter married a good husband, and the two worked hard together and made a fortune.I bought a large courtyard to honor my mother and took my laid-off sister to live there.I gave my house to another sister, and the family was prosperous and harmonious.
I also know a successful woman, a Beijinger, who has a very good homework since childhood, but ***With an order, the 16-year-old also got a troop train at Linhe, Inner Mongolia and later married a farmer.She is very kind, filial to her parents, and to her own peasant husband. She has never given up on her.
Twenty years ago, she worked in a small town in Inner Mongolia, with a salary of only 38 yuan a month. She actually sent 15 yuan to her parents. Her parents are both intellectuals from Beijing and do not lack this money at all, but she just wants to do her filial piety.Every year when she goes home, she also buys a lot of things for her parents.Later, her business became more and more popular, and she was also promoted to the position of the county’s educated youth.Her younger brother is not good to his parents and does not listen to his parents' advice. He does not want a nurse he is looking for, and insists on finding a car ticket seller as his wife. The woman may have a low quality and is full of swearing. As a result, her mother refused to let her enter the door. The child was eight months old and had never entered her in-laws' house.It was the Chinese New Year, and my sister-in-law returned to her hometown in Shunyi. Her younger brother couldn't go back to her mother's house. She had no place to go and was lonely and clear.
The woman in Inner Mongolia was anxious and bought a lot of gifts for her brother, asking him to go home and tell the old man that this was bought by the other party’s in-laws. In this way, her parents couldn’t sit still and wanted to give the other party a gift. She ran to buy a lot of things.In this way, both sides began to move.In the past, my younger brother never gave money to his family, and under her guidance, he also paid money on a monthly basis.
In fact, many developed people seem to have problems of one kind or another, but one thing you will find is that they are filial to their parents.real.With this little benefit, the heaven and earth have given such a generous reward, let alone being kind and judging Buddha's name with vegetarianism.
Unfilial people are very poor
One of my real sisters is very selfish and always considers herself first, regardless of her parents.Some time ago, I had a big fight with her about her parents' affairs. She said that I had other plans to take care of my parents. I was angry and said we swear. I said to me, "If I have selfish intentions, if I have done something shameful, God is going to go out and let the car..."As a result, she didn't dare to read to me, so she ran away.Everything she does is very hindered.I have been working in Amway for more than ten years and am a little talented person. I teach people about Amway everywhere, but I still haven't started to publish it. It's still very difficult.And the ones who worked together in Amway, although they didn't seem to be as good as her, they are all making a fortune now.
There are workers living in the alley opposite my house, who are under the minimum living allowance. The couple is not good to their parents-in-law. The man has a cerebral thrombosis and is paralyzed on the bed. This man has time, but he can work hard without money, right?He didn't go to take care of him, his mother came over to scold the couple, and our neighbors saw it... As a result, this family was in a miserable state and life was very difficult. The youngest daughter was only eight or nine years old and was not good-looking. She had deaf ears and brought hearing aids, which was very pitiful.In short, there must be something hateful about a pitiful person, and I know this now.
When I heard this female doctor say this, I remembered the famous musician Li Yarong who once said that she had heard and heard. She used to think that rural people were very filial. After all, have many traditions been preserved? Who knew that she went to Shanxi and Shaanxi for an interview and found that it was not the case. The elderly in the west were very pitiful. Although many elderly people had children and daughters, they were thrown in a single cave with no food or drink. Sometimes when their children remembered it, they threw them in some cold buns. In the middle of winter, the west was very cold and there was no firewood... She asked the accompanying ones, why are you like this?The locals said that this is the case, and many elderly people starve to death... Li Yarong realized that there is a reason for poverty in the west. The people there are so poor and do not want to improve. The country and individuals give some donations, and some of them will exchange for alcohol. And so, this is unfilial, how can they not be poor?
Unfilial people can't keep their wealth even if they make money
Are filial piety who can make a fortune but unfilial cannot make a fortune?I asked the retired physician.She said it might not be certain, but even if you are unfilial, you will eventually be destroyed.She gave an example.Her classmate's younger brother was doing business after the reform and opening up, and her family also lent him 20,000 yuan.This person is unfilial to his parents and disrespects him, and scolds him for being cruel.He once had a very popular business, doing TV business and fluorescent screen business, and his business was spread all over the country and made a lot of money.Later, it caught up with the national policy adjustment and went bankrupt.Now, for many years, the 20,000 yuan he borrowed had not yet been paid back.People talked about him behind his back that the guy didn't accumulate virtue, made so much money, and lost money again.
The ancient Chinese people valued a filial son the most, believing that "all evils are the first, and all virtues are the first." This is still very reasonable. "Filialty" is a criterion for measuring whether a person is ungrateful, kind to others, and whether he can share the blessings with others. A rich man once said that when he makes friends, he depends on whether the person is filial to his parents. If he is not good to his parents, it is even more impossible to be kind to his friends. He is afraid that he will be a traitor and the world will not like it.God has the virtue of being kind and filial, and he likes people the most. Even if such people are in desperate situations, they will be protected by God. It is not surprising that they can be resurrected in the future and be prosperous and revitalized.
The unfilial sons, starving their mother to death, will be retribution in life
My neighbor told me two passages of what happened in their hometown and asked me if this was the cause and effect mentioned by the Buddha.
A county in Jilin Province, a village, a family of eight people performed a human tragedy in a short time.Everyone in all villages knows this.Although they don’t understand what Buddhism is, they all know that it is called retribution.For decades, the parents of this family have been facing the loess and facing the sky, pulling up three sons and three daughters, a total of six children.And they married their wives and built houses for them one by one;He married his daughter and took the dowry away.It is obvious how difficult this should be.When the father, who was bent over by life, sent away the last daughter who went out, he became ill and lay down forever.The villagers lamented for him, saying that his life was miserable, but his wife's life was even more miserable than him.My father left less than a month ago, and my mother also lay on the bed due to a cerebral hemorrhage, leaving behind a hemiplegia.Although you can also deliver food to your stomach with your left hand or go to the toilet to relieve your hands, someone must take care of you and help you.
How did these six children (not their children) treat this mother who has worked hard all his life?At the beginning, they arranged for two people to take turns to take care of my mother, which was reasonable.After a long time, I became bored with my third son and daughter-in-law.First, he complained that there were too many people and caused trouble, and he was talking nonsense. Later, he criticized the monks and sister-in-law and had a quarrel with his sister-in-law and sister-in-law. He simply refused to let others take care of him or not let them deliver food.At first, they brought some food and drinks to my mother when they were having dinner, but later they found that they had to go to the bathroom after eating. The third daughter-in-law was disgusted with doing this job, so she started to reduce food and water for my mother, and sometimes she didn't give me some food and drinks a day.The other children are incompatible with their third daughter-in-law, and it is rare to come once every ten days and half a month.Once, the third daughter came to see me and found that I was weak. After listening carefully, I heard me say, "I'm hungry...I'm hungry..." So she ran into my third brother's house and wanted to find some food for me.Unexpectedly, the third sister-in-law got angry when she heard this, ran into her mother's house and shouted, "You just ate two bowls of porridge, why do you want to eat it again?What if I have to die of suffocation?Your daughter will also say that we are not filial to you!”
After the third daughter insisted, she finally fed me a few bites of rice.While feeding, the third daughter put her hand into the quilt while her third sister-in-law was not in the house and touched the old lady's belly, which confirmed that the third sister-in-law was telling a lie.So the next day, the third daughter brought me six eggs. I was simply swallowing it up and ate it all in one breath.After a while, she seemed to have some strength. She whispered to her third daughter: "If you don't come, they won't give me any water or food, they want to starve me to death."A few days later, my second daughter was eating shrimps at home, and I brought two of them to my mother and were feeding them. When the third son who came in later saw them, he stepped forward and knocked the bowl to the ground, and stomped the two shrimps with his feet. He angrily scolded the second sister for not letting her eat shrimps, saying that patients with cerebral hemorrhage are not easy to take supplements, and that it will cause cerebral hemorrhage if they are replenished too much blood. Are you responsible for your death?He also said, if any of you care about me anymore, I will send me to you, don’t just eat or take care of me!The situation of their family has been rumored in the village for a long time.Many people advised their eldest son to take their mother to their homes to raise them, but no child responded.Not long after, the sound of crying and shouting at my mother came from the third yard. My mother, who had worked hard all her life, was finally taken away by the disease and hunger, and the black-hearted rebellious son who was more cruel than the disease and hunger.
The bitter cold wind whistled, as if the sorrow and joy were shaking the sky and the earth, accompanied by a group of unfilial children and grandchildren wearing hemp and filial piety to the cemetery.Bulks of paper money were thrown into the air, but were taken away by the angry cold wind... Death seemed to have recognized a path and came to this family one after another.A month later, the eldest son was admitted to the town hospital due to cerebral thrombosis. Although he was relieved of death after rescue, he left a hemiplegia problem.Later, he could even appear on the streets and alleys with his arms and legs curled up.Just one month after the eldest son was discharged from the hospital, the second son and son-in-law were admitted to the town hospital one after another a few days, and the diagnosis was all cerebral thrombosis.Twenty days later, the two above were not discharged from the hospital, and the second daughter was also admitted to the town hospital with the same disease.
The day after the second daughter was discharged from the hospital, the third daughter-in-law also came to report, but this time it was not a cerebral thrombosis, but it was replaced by a stomach perforation.The third daughter-in-law was still receiving an injection. The third son-in-law accidentally hit the tractor on a bicycle and flew more than two meters away. Although he was sent to the hospital, he had many fractures on his body, including a crack in the left kneecap and a comminuted fracture in his right knee. He could not get out of the ground for several months.
Less than a year after the old lady's death, her children and their spouse visited this township hospital one after another, and each person spent more than 10,000 yuan when they were discharged.No wonder someone humorously said: Township hospitals were contracted by wealthy people.Doctors and nurses who have never received bonuses have received more than one hundred every month.This kind of hospitalization like a "revolving lantern" is all from the family.During that period, one to ten, ten to hundreds, and ten to eight villages, becoming the information of people’s fields and chatting and laughing after dinner.Although there are very few people in the local area who believe in Buddhism, everyone who participates in the chat will say, "I deserve it, this is retribution!”
It's not over yet. The oldest son, who was paralyzed, was walking on the street one day and his legs moved, suddenly his legs became weak and he fell head-on on the headlight of a car that happened to pass by. He was knocked out more than one meter, hurting his brain and becoming a vegetable. It is said that he is still lying at home.Soon, the second son got hepatitis and died after more than a year of hard work.Later, the eldest daughter-in-law also suffered from cerebral thrombosis and is now dead.What will happen in the future is unknown.My neighbor said that the old lady's grandchildren, grandchildren, grandchildren were almost all taken care of by the elderly, and no one visited the elderly during the elderly's illness and hospitalization, which made people feel disappointed.I hope that good teachers will teach them Buddhism and change their future destiny.Otherwise, the laws of nature will be clear and their ending will be unimaginable.
The rebellious son deliberately starved his sick mother to death. Although the people had not been elected, the officials were not blamed, and they were not defeated by the national laws, the net of heaven was vast and unlimited. These unfilial children were punished one by one.This is true, everything in the world is saying.Good people speak of the Dharma of good people, evil people speak of the Dharma of evil people, people speak of the Dharma of human beings, and animals speak of the Dharma of animals.If you understand, you can practice the Dharma taught by the Buddha, both food, clothing, housing and transportation. The sutra is the way, and the decision of how to walk the Dharma depends on yourself.I wrote the story of the cause and effect of life in this booklet, just to warn those unfilial sons who are unfilial to their parents to turn to justice as soon as possible, otherwise it will be too late to regret when the evil retribution comes!
I will also tell you a real example. Because it is real, it is necessary to avoid real locations and names. Please understand this. This was in the early 1990s, about 1992 or 1993. There is a shop not far from the south of Gulou here. (This generation was a prime location at that time ),Because of the hard work of the old owner, the business of the shop was very prosperous. A few years after his wife passed away, the old owner felt that although she was rich in life, she always lacked a person to talk to. Later, she found another wife, who was also a very good person. However, the old owner's son strongly opposed it, often lost his temper and threw things, and beat and scolded them at any time.
This son had a daughter's first child, but because he was a daughter, the son didn't like her very much, including his daughter-in-law. Later, he gave birth to a son secretly. Now his daughter has no status. She works at home all day long, and sometimes she doesn't have time to do homework. Since the old man had a grandson, his son has changed his career. There was no way, so the old man gave the shop to his son and rented a house with his wife, but the son still refused to let the old couple go and often came to him. The New Year is almost over. Not only did my son not give the old man the New Year’s things, but he burned paper for the dead at the door of the old man!At that time, the neighbors couldn't stand it, but they dared not speak out. After all, it was not their own business. Another day, his son burned paper for the old man again. That night, a fire broke out in the small shop where he lived. The reason was that he put the electric stove under the bed to keep warm. After a long time, the bedding was roasted. The fire became so big that he realized that because there were a lot of things in the shop, he placed the motorcycle at the door at night, but it took a lot of effort to escape. He only rescued his wife and young son. His daughter cried and called him but couldn't help. Fortunately, the fire brigade and neighbors helped him rescued his daughter, but the shop was completely finished. The unfilial son and his young son also died of severe burns. The daughter was not burned to death because she slept in another corner of the wall, but was also burned, and the daughter-in-law was also seriously burned. It took a long time afterwards that she understood what was going on and regretted it!
