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What are the quarrels in the family?

Teacher Cai Lixu 2021-08-01

What are the prone to quarrels in the family?There is a scripture in "The Rules of Disciples" that talks very well, saying: "Whether money and property are light, how can you get resentment?If you are patient with words, you will be eliminated by anger."In a family, it is not easy to fight for money and property;If you can control your emotions and not lose your temper, many disputes may be resolved.When we think of the relationship between brothers and sisters and relatives in ancient times, we can indeed achieve "there is no resentment."If you are patient with words, you will be eliminated by anger."Just like the teaching left by the ancients to our brothers together, "Everyone is in harmony with each other, and no words hurt our feelings.""The same energy is connected to the branches", parents are our roots, and brothers and all descendants are branches."Don't hurt your feelings after some words" means to endure words, so you must know how to endure, tolerate humiliation, and not fight. Don't worry about trivial matters, so that you can tolerate big things and small things will be nothing.

「When will we be together and old, when will we be able to be brothers?"What do you remember if you are light on property and light on property?Remember the kindness.How did my sister treat me before and how did my brother treat me before."If you live together, you will be at ease. Don't have any disputes. You will have a son and a brother in front of you, so stay with your children and grandchildren to see."A good example to ward off disputes for their descendants and a good example to have a harmonious family and a prosperous life.

We see that the Zhou Dynasty has been in the past eight hundred years, because the ancestors of the Zhou Dynasty, such as Taibo and Zhongyong, gave up the country to their younger brothers, so what else is there to argue about?Even if Zhao Xiao and Zhao Li of the Han Dynasty were able to sacrifice their lives for their brothers, what else can we fight for?Therefore, being able to lighten wealth and then hold back your temper is to get rid of greed and anger from self-cultivation, and then you will naturally be able to achieve family harmony.

2024-02-05 18:03
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