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The moral character determines fortune, 10 words that smart people don’t say

Other articles 2021-01-03

The ancients said: You can spit roses and thorns.Only with good etiquette and good fortune can one have good fortune, and only with good fortune can one avoid detours and achieve more.Don’t speak badly, and don’t keep your harsh words.This is the cultivation we should have.If you speak carelessly, it will be hard to pursue it. It will hurt others and yourself.By quitting the following ten bad ways of speaking, you can turn decay into magic.

1、Avoid talking too much.

Disease comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth.Don’t talk too much, as you will lose more.

《According to Mozi, Mozi's student Ziqin asked Mozi: Is it good to speak more?Mozi replied: Toads and frogs are screaming non-stop day and night, making them tired, but no one listens to them.This morning I saw the rooster crowing on time at dawn, and the world was shaking (people got up early.)What are the benefits of talking more?It is only useful to speak when the timing is right.

Mozi tells us that if you don’t talk too much, people who can talk always say the right words at the right time.

2、Avoid speaking lightly.

Words should not be said lightly. If you change your words, it is better not to say them;Don’t make promises lightly. If you agree to change, it’s better not to make promises.Don't speak lightly, those who speak lightly will call to blame and humiliate.Don't make wishes to others easily.Making a wish easily will lose your trust.

3、Avoid talking wildly.

Don't be ignorant of the importance and talk nonsense.Talking nonsense often makes you regret it.Mr. Jin from Shanyin of the Qing Dynasty said: Do not be arrogant when acting, and you should be lucky and misfortune.Being arrogant or being humble is directly related to personal fortune and fortune.What people show in front of others is nothing more than words and actions, and their words are the most direct, so don’t speak madly.If you are crazy, you will attract attention, and if you are crazy, you will attract hatred, which will easily cause trouble.

4、Avoid speaking out loud.

Don't be outspoken without regard for the consequences, otherwise it will cause trouble.Talking straight, saying something is going to turn around, and saying something coldly, saying something is going to be warm, taking into account other people's self-esteem and putting other people's self-esteem first.

5、Be careful and say nothing.

Be subtle and do not leave room for anything.You don’t have to say enough to know others. Leave three points of room for others and leave some verbal virtue for yourself.You don’t have to be harsh on others. Leave three points of room for others and leave some stakes for yourself.

6、Avoid missing words.

Don't disclose confidentiality.Things are accomplished in secret, and words are lost in misunderstanding.For some secrets related to others or organizations, you must not disclose them. This is a matter of ethics and character, and it is also easy to cause serious consequences.When things are not sure, you cannot say certain things, so as not to cause bad effects and make people feel frivolous or mean.

7、Avoid bad words.

Don’t say rude and slanderous words, don’t hurt others.An old saying goes, knife sores are easy to disappear, but bad words are difficult to eliminate.The psychological harm caused by bad words is far more than physical harm.

8、Avoid being rude.

Being arrogant means being arrogant and self-righteous.Lao Tzu said: Those who criticize themselves will not achieve success, and those who are proud of themselves will not achieve success.People who boast about themselves offset the credit, and people who are arrogant will not make progress.People who speak are either pride or ignorant. No matter which one is, it is not good for their own growth and will also arouse disgust from others.Shen Hanguang said in the late Ming and early Qing dynasties: If one is humble, one will be more convinced; if one is boasted, one will be doubtful.When speaking, don't be complacent and be self-righteous.Being proud and boasting is a manifestation of insufficient cultivation.

9、Avoid slander.

Slander is to say bad things behind the scenes, provoking discord or maliciously slander, belittle and insulting others.Those who slander are all villains.Wang Chong, a philosopher of the Eastern Han Dynasty, said: Slanderous words hurt goodness, and blue flies are dirty and white.Don't say bad things about others behind your back.Saying bad things behind the scenes will make the world unsettled.

10、Avoid angry words.

Don’t speak when you are angry, because what you say hurts others and yourself at this time, and what you say is poured out water.You should not speak nonsense. When you are angry, you will not speak in your mind, so you should think twice before you act.

2024-02-05 18:03
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