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Heart Master: Setbacks are the biggest motivation to move forward

Heart lawyer 2020-09-15

Setbacks are the greatest motivation to move forward

A worked very hard and was squeezed down by a so-called villain, and he was very angry. Someone advised him: "Don't be angry, this villain is equivalent to saving you, you are so active and willing to work, worry and be responsible every day, if he doesn't kick you down, maybe one day you will be tired at work." This setback is actually saving you and making you let go of your attachment to work. ”

After B succeeded in starting a business, he returned to his original unit to thank the leader who had fixed him, and thanked the leader for the torture and difficulties that made him leave the unit, so that he could start his new life and start a business.

C Reflection after divorce: If my ex-husband hadn't treated me like that, I would have always been so persistent in love, and I would always care about him in this life, and the more I care, the more sad I become; Now I finally know how to care about myself and learn to start letting go, isn't this also him saving me?

The above examples are all about suffering losses at that time but accumulating blessings for the future, which is the truth of "suffering losses is a blessing". Just like Deng Xiaoping - he has three ups and downs, but he can always treat it with a peaceful mind, so he can still play bridge at the age of 90.

And some people complain in the face of setbacks, which can only make the setbacks bigger and bigger. Frustration is spiritual, it is most afraid of calm, likes to compete the most, and the more frustration it is, the more it rolls up.

Buddhism says that "enduring hardship is suffering, and enjoying happiness is eliminating happiness". In the past, monks were not only for money, but when they met people scolding him, he gladly accepted it; When he encounters people respectfully offering him, he treats them calmly, and his heart remains unmoved. Nowadays, people try their best to avoid disasters and avoid hateful things, which is not a heart that follows fate.

The mind of the fate should learn to balance often. This balance is not our balance in the ordinary sense. Rather: balancing the past is a summary of the past. In reality, some people's disasters are not balancing the past, but balancing the future, testing your mind, your ability to consciousness and endurance. How much you endure, how great the blessings you will receive. Before giving you blessings, there must be the embodiment of disaster, disaster is the embodiment of blessings and merits, the positive side is disaster, and the negative side is blessing. Some people complain, the more they complain, the more disasters they have, and every time they come, it is the side of disaster. But blessings are also the embodiment of disaster, some people enjoy too much happiness when they are young, and always eat well, resulting in no longer being able to eat in the future; When I was a child, I was an official, and when I grew up, I was laid off; Some people are excited to move to a new house, and when they go in, they get seriously ill, and some elderly people never get up ...... again.

A dog has his day. In fact, everyone has a potential Buddha nature, it only listens to our own, if we often input some positive information to ourselves: "I am surrounded by good people", "I suffer a loss is a blessing", "These setbacks mean that I am going to be transferred"...... Wait, slowly we will find that setbacks are no longer a torture for us, but a motivation to move forward.

Heart rhythm teaching: Treat everything with a calm mind, suffering is a blessing, suffering can be suffering, and experiencing setbacks is to enhance our ability to customer service difficulties. In this way, life will be a different landscape.

2024-02-05 18:10
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