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The harm of sexual misconduct—the top ten typical mentalities of extramarital affair

evil YIN The harm - the top ten typical mentalities of extramarital affairs

1. Compensation Psychology

Some people are lonely because of the separation of the couple, or because one of the couple has physiological defects, physical satisfaction, or the relationship between the couple is not harmonious, so they take the initiative to find a third party or are willing to accept compensation from the third party, thus forming an extramarital affair.In fact, sex life is not the whole content of husband and wife's life. As long as the couple strengthens their connection, communicate more emotionally, and miss each other in their hearts, their life will still be fulfilling, so why should they compensate?

2. Psychology of loneliness

Some lovers fail to get married in the end, and both parties get married. Or if one party doesn't want to get married after they get married, they still have a crush on each other. When one party has a difficult life or the couple has a bad relationship, the other party feels that they still owe each other's affection, so they take the initiative to fall in love with their old lover, and the old love is reborn, thus creating an extramarital affair.In fact, lovers may not be able to get married. Since both parties have already started their own families or the other party has already started a family, you should face reality and cherish the relationship between husband and wife. When the other party has difficulties in life or the relationship between husband and wife is inconsistent, using extramarital affairs to repay the other party is not so much aiding the other party, but it is more of a harm to the other party, which is of no help.

3. Greedy psychology

Some people are greedy for the other party's money, regardless of their own personality, and take the initiative to commit themselves to the other party in exchange for a few copper coins, thus forming an extramarital affair. In fact, personality is a priceless treasure, and money is something outside the body. If there is more, use more, and spend less. Why exchange priceless treasure for a few copper coins? In addition, those with wealth should also avoid it. Since the other party is greedy for your money, why bother to give true love for the other party and develop a relationship.

4. Psychology

Some people actively show love because they are greedy for the beauty of the woman or the body of the man, thus having an extramarital affair.In fact, beauty looks beautiful and beautiful will naturally disappear with age. Only the beauty of the soul is eternal. Like fine wine, the longer the longer the fragrance becomes.Therefore, the most important thing is to be good at discovering the spouse's highlights and giving out your true feelings, so that Xi Shi will naturally appear in the eyes of the lover.

5. Psychology of repaying kindness

Some people get help from others because of difficulties in life, or because their husbands are away for a long time and their family is taken care of by others for a long time, so they have no way to repay them, so they have to give up their bodies, thus having an extramarital affair.In fact, since the other party is sincere in helping you, you will not seek your reward. If the other party is kind to you, just remember it in your heart. Why give your body to you?

If this affects the other party’s family, wouldn’t it be a good intention to do something bad?

6. Revenge Psychology

Some couples have an affair and do not listen to advice. In order to retaliate against each other, the other couple actively seeks a third party, thus having extramarital affairs and sexual misconduct.In fact, since it is wrong to know that the other party has an affair, why do you look for a third party to commit adultery? Wouldn’t you know that it is wrong? Besides, marriage is free and divorce is free. If the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down and they are about to make a divorce, and there is no possibility of reconciliation, you might as well divorce, make peace and break up, and being a friend is better than taking revenge on the other party.You should know that sexual misconduct in marriage is extremely unfair and unfair and sinful.

7. Strange psychology

Some couples live a normal life and feel dull, but the male and female protagonists of the film and television love with their lovers, waves are rising, living a fun and free life. They also want to experience this kind of life. Therefore, driven by this curiosity, they have an extramarital affair.In fact, peace and safety are blessings. Don’t look at the mountains and look high, and don’t know how to be blessed in blessings.

8. Hedonistic psychology

Some people are influenced by the bourgeois sexual liberation of their minds or by obscene film and television books and magazines, and believe that they are in their lives, eat, drink, play, and have fun while they are young, so they are promiscuous to the opposite sex, thus having extramarital affairs.In fact, sexual liberation and obscene film and television books are toxins that harm people. Each of us should consciously resist, establish a correct morality and outlook on life, and should not mistake arsenic as sugar.

9. Psychology of mutual pleasure

Some men and women help each other and support each other at work. Over time, both parties have a good impression and love each other, which leads to extramarital affairs. In fact, a good helper at work may not necessarily become a good couple in life. Since both parties help and support each other at work, why not get along like brothers and sisters?

10. Mutual benefit psychology

Some people use each other, collude with each other, commit crimes in partnership because of work constraints, and become two ants on the line. No one on both sides can do without each other, thus having an extramarital affair. In fact, as the saying goes, "Don't stretch your hand, you will be caught if you stretch out your hand."Once the incident is revealed and you are sent to jail, you have to go to prison for such extramarital affair.

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