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Buddhist story: Wisdom story: Three tips for a happy life

Alas, I am too tired to live! Who is not so deeply tired nowadays?

However, in Beijing, an 88-year-old old lady smiled relaxedly and told us in Mandarin with a slightly Hefei accent that it is easy to be a good person, and having a happy life is actually very simple: the first is not to punish yourself with your own mistakes, the second is not to punish others with your own mistakes, and the third is not to punish yourself with other people's mistakes.She smiled and shook her three fingers, her face full of rejuvenation and her calmness. There are three of them.Life will not be too tired and what a simple heart-speak!

The old lady who revealed the three secrets of happiness in life is named Zhang Yunhe.She is a knowledgeable woman with a background! Her husband is the famous linguist Zhou Youguang. Some people say: Zhou Youguang's peace, tranquility, vastness and depth will make you involuntarily associate the boundless sea.Her brother-in-law is Shen Congwen, a great writer who married her beautifully.Regarding Shen Congwen, the historian has a firm and firm comment: flawless people are more pure than jade, and good articles are better than immortals! And Zhang Yunhe herself has been wandering and has survived from death. It is the suffering and hardship of life that have made her realize the three secrets of happiness.

Don't punish yourself for your mistakes.Ask yourself, how many troubles are there in the world that you cannot overcome with yourself! People are not sages, who can do nothing without mistakes? If you make mistakes, you will be trapped in endless self-blame, grief, and regret, then your life situation will be as Tagore said: not only will you lose the sun at noon, but you will also lose the stars at night.

Don’t punish others for your own mistakes. Everyone understands such a simple truth, but it is easy to know and difficult to do.People will regret their mistakes, but many people regret their wounded vanity, but they still have to frantically look for greater vanity that can cover up their wounds. Therefore, they can't help but punish others; and those innocent scapegoats who are punished will inevitably rise up sooner or later.How can life not be tiring if you punish others with your own mistakes? Therefore, not punishing others with your own mistakes is not an easy state to reach. It requires a great amount of money to hide and rely on.

Don’t punish yourself with other people’s mistakes. Many people may proudly say that this is not a portrayal of me, but I think: not necessarily! If you don’t punish yourself with other people’s mistakes, then how can you have such evil thoughts from time to time: He dares to die and refuses to save me, why should I be brave? He dares to embezzle and accept bribes, why should I be honest and self-righteous? He dares to steal men and prostitutes, why should I pretend to be noble? No one should be stubborn, so why would we punish ourselves with other people’s mistakes like this! It is this kind of punishment that makes us feel very tired in life.

Zhang Yun and the old lady, your smile is so peaceful, and this peace contains so many vicissitudes! Your heart is so simple, and this simple heart is so deep...

2024-02-05 18:02
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